Ukucwasa kanye nezicupho ezingokwengqondo lapho uqala noma utshala imali ebhizinisini

Ukucwasa okuphindaphindiwe nezicupho zengqondo lapho utshala imali ebhizinisini

Ukutshala imali noma ukwenza kubandakanya ukubhekana nemizwa yethu. Leyo ngxenye yemvelo esenze savela njengabantu idluliswa wonke umzuzu osukwini lwethu nosuku lokuphila. Eqinisweni, uCharlie Munger, iphini likamongameli waseBerkshire Hathaway, uchaze okuthile okucashile ngamagama ambalwa: Kungenzeka kanjani ukuthi ezomnotho zingabi isimilo? Uma kungaziphathi kahle, yini isihogo?

Ukwehlukanisa nokwazi ukuthi kungani sizizwa, kuzosenza sithathe ibanga ukucubungula imizwa yethu ngaphambi kokuthi ingene kokuthile. Akugcini lapho, kodwa futhi nengxenye enengqondo, ngoba ubuchopho, kude nokuthi benzelwe ukuthola iqiniso, benzelwe ukuthi baphile. Futhi kwenzekani, ngokwesibonelo, ezimakethe lapho bonke abatshalizimali benza ngokulingana? Ukuthi imakethe ivame ukuveza imiphumela ethile. Ukubona ukuthi kunezicupho ezingokwengqondo nokubandlulula kwengqondo kukhona kuzokusiza wenze izinqumo ezinengqondo. Ngaphandle kwalokho, singaba yizisulu zamanje, bese silandela isiphetho esifanayo.

Umdwebo Wokulawula

indlela yokunqoba imicabango nemizwa engenangqondo lapho utshala imali

Isibonelo sokuqala sezinga esikholelwa ukuthi sisingatha ngalo isimo ukucabanga ukuthi silawula okuthile. Imvamisa kwenzeka ngokudida i- amakhono namakhono, kuvame ukweqiswa, futhi sikholwe ukuthi sonke isenzo sizogxila ezenzweni zethu. Eqinisweni, yize ukusebenza kanzima kufanelekile, kunamaphesenti aphezulu wezinto ezingaphandle kwakho ezingaba nomthelela ebhizinisini.

Enye yezinyathelo zokunqoba le nkohliso yokulawula ukucabanga ukuthi yiziphi izinto esingakwazi ukuzilawula. Kusuka kozakwethu, kumakhasimende, okuthandwayo, noma imithethonqubo emisha, isibonelo. Kuleli qophelo, okufanele kwaziwe ukuthi ukusebenza kanzima kuvame ukuzuza, kodwa njalo isebenza ngobuhlakani.

I-Biology yokuqinisekisa

Lokhu kukhetha ukuqonda kucace kakhulu. Kwesinye isikhathi kuvame kakhulu kubantu abathile, kwabanye hhayi kangako, kepha kwesinye isikhathi sonke siye sawela kukho. Futhi cishe kungabi ngaphezulu noma ngaphansi kuka ukuya nokufunda imininingwane ehambelana futhi ngokwendlela yethu yokucabanga. Imvamisa ukholelwa okuthile, noma ucabange okuthile, funa leyo mininingwane, futhi kunokuqhathanisa esikucabangayo, kuyalandelwa ukuqinisa lokho esikucabangayo. Ngenxa yalokho kunikezwa iphutha elibulalayo. Uma kunephutha, sizoqinisekisa inkolelo yamanga ngokuqiniseka okuthe xaxa.

Iqiniso ukuthi uma ucabanga ngokuthile futhi uqinisekile, akukho okuzokwenzeka ukuzwa noma ukuhambela umbono ophambene. Noma kunjalo, uma sibeka engcupheni okuthile okubalulekile kithi, njengesikhathi sethu, amandla noma imali. Ukuqhathanisa kanye / noma ukuba nombono ohlukile akuyona into embi, kungasebenza ukuqinisekisa lokho esikukholelwayo, noma esimweni esihle, ukubona iphutha lethu. Kuwukukhetha kwengqondo, kepha uma sikutholile, sizokwamukela isikhundla esiphansi kakhulu kithi. Futhi ngenxa yalokho, indlela enembe kakhudlwana yenkinga eseduze.

Ukuthobela Ukuhambisana

Ngokwami, ngicabanga ukuthi lokhu kukhetha, uma kungenjalo kakhulu, kungenye yezinto "eziyingozi kakhulu" esingazithola. Ukuchema kokuvumelana kuncike ekwamukeleni ukucabanga okuningi ngaphakathi kweqembu lomphakathi. Kwenzeka kalula nje uma singenawo umbono ocacile ngokuthile noma samukela umqondo owandile weqembu. Ngokuvamile kwenzeka ukukholelwa ukuthi uma abantu abaningi becabanga okufanayo, kuzoba ngesizathu esithile, futhi ngokungazi sitshela ukuthi lo mbono / into kufanele ukuthi yaqhathaniswa. Kubuye futhi ngokwezinga lokungazethembi kwethu.

ukucwasa kwengqondo lapho utshala imali ebhizinisini

Qeda ukwamukela inkolelo noma ngabe sinomuzwa wokuthi ayilungile, imvamisa ayinayo imiphumela emihle. Phakathi kokunye, ngoba uma siqala ibhizinisi elisha, sithuthukisa isithombe, noma senza noma yiluphi olunye uhlobo lotshalo-mali ... Kuzoba ngoba sikhombe okuthile abantu abaningi abangakuboni. Kungani kufanele siguqule imiqondo yethu na? Kufanele ugcine izinyawo zakho phansi, kepha ngaphandle kokuncika ngokweqile futhi uvumelane nokucabanga kweningi.

Uzwela lwamazinga ahlukene

Lokhu sikuphila enyameni yethu osukwini lwethu nosuku. Kumayelana nokwehluleka ukuzibeka endaweni yomunye umuntu. Lapho sisuka endaweni yokuthula, kunzima ngathi ukukhomba izinga lentukuthelo, ukukhungatheka noma ukunganaki kwabanye. Ukusuka ekuthuleni, futhi ukugcina i-logic ebandayo eceleni, kufanele wenze umzamo wokuqonda ukuthi lowo muntu uzizwa kanjani, ikakhulukazi ngenxa yezenzo zakhe kanye / noma namazwi.

Ukungaqondi ukuthi abanye bazizwa kanjani kuyasithinta lapho senza izinqumo. Ikakhulu, uma sizithatha, ngeke sazi nokuthi zizosithinta kanjani thina ngokuhamba kwesikhathi. Ezingeni elihlukile, kulula ukuwela ephutheni lokukholelwa ukuthi sizokwazi ukuthi sizozithola kanjani ngokomzwelo ngokuzayo. Kubalulekile ukuthi ungahleleli amaphrojekthi amakhulu noma okwenzekayo ngaphandle kokubheka ukuthi ngeke sihlale sinesikhuthazo nesimo somqondo esifanayo.

indlela yokufunda ukwenza izinqumo ezingcono zezimali

I-Imposter Syndrome

Kuyinkimbinkimbi ukucabanga, kepha kwenzeka kaningi kunokucabanga kwethu. I-Imposter Syndrome ilele ku- umqondo wokuthi wena ngokwakho awukufanele okuthile. Kwake kwenzeka kithi sonke ukuthi impumelelo yethu siyibeke ngengozi, ngenhlanhla, ukwethenjwa abantu besithathu abakubeke kithi, njll. Yize kuliqiniso ukuthi kungenzeka ukuthi sizame kanzima, futhi saba ngongoti impela kulokho esizinikela ngakho noma esesikuzuzile, kukhona isikhathi lapho sesaba khona. I- wesabe ukuthi kuzotholakala ukuthi sisesimeni esingesona esethu.

Kufanele ucabange ukuthi ingxenye yempumelelo yakho ingabangelwa yinhlanhla kwesinye isikhathi. Futhi ngenxa yalesi sizathu akufanele sizizwe kabi ngalokhu esesikuzuzile. Inkinga elandelayo yokuthola lokhu kucabanga ukuthi ukungazithathi phansi kwethu, nokungabaza amakhono ethu. Isikhathi lapho lokhu kuqala ukwenzeka, sizoqala ukucabanga ukuthi asikwazi ukufeza izinto eziningi, futhi kulapho-ke lapho kuzofika ukungabi khona kwesisusa futhi kuzovela izinqumo ezimbi. Futhi lokhu akulona iqiniso, awukwazi ukuzingabaza.

Emkhakheni wezamabhizinisi, wezomnotho kanye nowezimali, njengasezimpilweni zethu, ukusebenzisa ingqondo kusazohlala kungumlingani wethu omkhulu. Ukwazi amandla ethu, ubuhle, amakhono, kuzokusiza wazi ukuthi ungafika kude kangakanani. Kepha ekugcineni, kuzoba nokuthile okubaluleke kakhulu, ukwazi imingcele yakho. Yazi imikhawulo yakho, futhi uzokwazi konke ongakusebenzisa okwamanje.


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